GiveLoveLiveMore

For those who have been here before: I know, I know. I haven’t been around in a while. I can explain. But for now, just know I’ve been hunkered down writing almost everyday trying to refine my style and gettin the sh*t done. I’ve been wanting to write in this room but my daily writing has required my undivided attention. Friends? Yes. Let’s be.

For those who are here for the first time: Welcome. Come on in and stay awhile.

‘Time waits for no man,” they say. I used to hear my parents say that often growing up. I didn’t pay that any mind back then. But now? I understand what they mean 100%.

Our middle child, Bella is now in kindergarten. She’s ready and is well-prepared. I’m the one who wants time to slow down. I feel like the guy who runs into a room yelling to get everyone’s attention, with his arms extended out in front of him showing his palms.

“Wait! Wait a minute!”

But sadly, time doesn’t work that way.

I read something on social media today that said, “I didn’t realize how short a month was until I started paying bills.” Oof. No lies told. But that’s only a small part of why I feel like time flies.

I’ve thinking about this most of the week: Why is time moving so fast? I couldn’t really make much of it. I’m in my late 40’s. I have short term goals. I have long term goals. I have mid-range goals. I told my homie the other day that I’m in today, next week, January and two years down the road: at the same time. I’m thinking about setting my family up while I’m here (financially) and after i close my eyes. I’m planning for saving money for new gear to be purchased and next summer’s vacation. It is a lot.

Do not be mistaken: I’m not complaining. I Am a blessed man (more later on why I capitalize “I Am” another time-and yeah, it’s much deeper than words on a screen). I am thankful. And it still is a lot.

This is why I’ve been feeling as though time is moving so fast. I’m “right here” and “over there” at the same time. Yes, there are potential dangers associated with my current disposition but relax and just let me be for a beat.

“Time keeps on slipping, ” as the Steve Miller Band would say.

I’m sure I’ll find a way to think more presently, but I thought I’d share somethin’ I’ve been chewin’ on this week.

Until next time.

Love, Peace and Understanding.

-Herbie